Opening to Eros
If you and your partner are open-minded, adventurous, and prioritize your sexual, spiritual and erotic connection, Five-MeO Education and Tandava Retreats are excited to share a unique opportunity for a first-of-its-kind, five-day Couple’s Retreat--Opening to Eros. The retreat, which utilizes 5-MeO-DMT, is catered to couples with a solid foundation of communication who are eager to explore subconscious patterns and core beliefs that may impair the personal and relational expression of Eros or “lifeforce.” Participants will deepen their experience of vitality, vivacity, imagination, fantasy and co-creation through a relational lens, with group workshops and privately assigned exercises including embodiment practices, breathwork, meditative orgasm, Tantra and erotic massage. 5-MeO-DMT has proven to be a powerful tool for catharsis, and draws on emotional, somatic, and spiritual resources to shift the way our bodies and psyches hold and respond to relational constructs both past and present. This unique, spiritual container offers the necessary space and deep intentionality for couples to connect and expand in ways that prioritize dyadic and sexual transcendence. All sexuality and gender expressions are welcome.

If you and your partner are open-minded, adventurous, and prioritize your sexual, spiritual and erotic connection, Tandava Retreats is excited to share a unique opportunity for a first-of-its-kind, five-day Couple’s Retreat–Opening to Eros.

Understanding Eros
The retreat, which utilizes 5-MeO-DMT, is catered to couples with a solid foundation of communication who are eager to explore subconscious patterns and core beliefs that may impair the personal and relational expression of Eros or “lifeforce.” Participants will deepen their experience of vitality, vivacity, imagination, fantasy and co-creation through a relational lens, with group workshops and privately assigned exercises including embodiment practices, breathwork, meditative orgasm, Tantra and erotic massage.
Sexual Transcendence
5-MeO-DMT has proven to be a powerful tool for catharsis, and draws on emotional, somatic, and spiritual resources to shift the way our bodies and psyches hold and respond to relational constructs both past and present. This unique, spiritual container offers the necessary space and deep intentionality for couples to connect and expand in ways that prioritize dyadic and sexual transcendence. All sexuality and gender expressions are welcome.


Your Facilitators
Dr. Holly Richmond:
In addition to founding an international sex therapy and sexual wellness coaching practice, Dr. Holly Richmond co-facilitates sexual health retreats for survivors of sexual trauma utilizing 5-MeO-DMT. The retreats implement the protocol featured in her book and online course, Reclaiming Pleasure, which are innovative platforms looking at both somatic and psychological factors in survivors’ erotic recovery. Her practice also includes expert witness and consultancy work in large civil cases for survivors of sexual trauma. Dr. Holly is regularly quoted in publications and media outlets including The New York Times, CNN, Shape, NBC, Wired, Oprah, Men’s Health, and Women’s Health. She is a sought-after consultant in the sextech industry, and is seen as a pioneer in the exploration of the intersection of sex and technology.

Your Facilitators
Joël Brierre:
Joel works specifically in the retreat setting and with over a decade of experience, he has curated a container that is meant to facilitate lasting change. Joel’s background is in the study and teaching of non-dual Vedic philosophies and practices. Drawing from a combination of eastern lenses, as well as neuro-feedback, and other contemporary western integrative practices. These retreats give participants a space to safely unfold, address trauma, undergo cathartic release, and have the support system to hold them through the whole process. With a heavy focus on integration and aftercare, participants are able to create lasting change and find deeper states of peace than they thought conceivable.

Your Facilitators
Opening to Eros will be facilitated by Dr. Holly Richmond, @drhollyrichmond who is a somatic psychotherapist, certified sex therapist and mindful sex expert, Victoria Wueschner, @sacredsurrendermedicine Co-Founder of F.I.V.E Education and 5-MeO-DMT Facilitator, and Joël Brierre (aka: Joël the entheogenic yogi) who is the Founder & CEO of Kaivalya Kollectiv, President of Tandava Retreats, and a pioneer in the modern psychedelic movement with decades of experience utilizing 5-MeO-DMT
Whats Included?
Somatic Resonance
In this 45-minute workshop, couples will explore six elements of attunement both cognitively and somatically. Utilizing verbal prompts as well as breathwork and light movement, couples will settle into deeper connection in preparation for their first medicine journey.
Meditation With Orgasmic Intention
In this one-hour workshop, couples will deepen their understanding of touch-based meditation through an orgasmic lens. Principles will be defined and described in a group setting, followed by non-genital based touch. “Homework” will be created for each couple, unique to their challenges and/or desires, to practice that evening in the privacy of their rooms.
The Weave
In this one-hour workshop, tantric practices will be front and center. Couples will explore various tantric techniques to further integrate their plant medicine journeys, leaning into nonduality and elements of embodiment. Utilizing the group energy, couples will have the opportunity to share verbally and somatically (non-genitally) with other participants, and once again be offered specific tantric massage homework to complete that evening in the privacy of their rooms.
Erotic Embodiment
In this 45-minute workshop, concepts of Eros will be realized through practices that emphasize embodiment, attunement, co-regulation and sexual transcendence. Couples will begin the journey of translating their experience within this spiritual container to the outside world by focusing on acceptance, appreciation and the co-creation of rituals for the insights they have received. Conscious admiration of themselves and each other will further deepen a daily expression of eroticism.
Registration Process
Discovery Call
Schedule 15 Minute discovery call to ask any questions you may have, and to determine if 5-MeO-DMT and this retreat are right for you.
Safety Intake Form
At Tandava safety is our number one priority so all guests complete a screening form prior to booking a retreat with us.
Place Deposit
To secure your journey of transformation we politely ask all guests to pay an upfront holding deposit.
Schedule Preperation Session
Once you've placed your deposit, you will be assigned a facilitator who will guide you through your preperation ahead of your stay with us.